王敏娥 2018-08-21 14:19
<p style="border: 0px none rgb(25, 25, 25); color: rgb(25, 25, 25); counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; font-size: 16px; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; margin-bottom: 28.8px; margin-top: 10.08px; padding: 0px; white-space: normal;"><span style="border: 0px none rgb(25, 25, 25); font-weight: 700; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">不取笑孩子</span></p><p><span style="color: rgb(25, 25, 25); font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; line-height: 30.4px; word-wrap: break-word;"> </span></p><p style="border: 0px none rgb(25, 25, 25); color: rgb(25, 25, 25); counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; font-size: 16px; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; margin-bottom: 28.8px; margin-top: 10.08px; padding: 0px; white-space: normal;">孩子的想法和大人们是不同的，不管孩子说什么，除非孩子自己也在笑，否则别去笑他。</p><p><span style="color: rgb(25, 25, 25); font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; line-height: 30.4px; word-wrap: break-word;"> </span></p><p style="border: 0px none rgb(25, 25, 25); color: rgb(25, 25, 25); counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; font-size: 16px; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; margin-bottom: 28.8px; margin-top: 10.08px; padding: 0px; white-space: normal;">当孩子很认真的向你诉说，你轻蔑或不相信的态度，只会伤害孩子，而且以后也不再愿意跟你说。交谈中的幽默是好的，但要小心使用幽默，要看孩子能否了解幽默与取笑的不同。</p><p><br/></p>
王敏娥 2018-08-21 14:18
<p style="border: 0px none rgb(25, 25, 25); color: rgb(25, 25, 25); counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; font-size: 16px; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; margin-bottom: 28.8px; margin-top: 10.08px; padding: 0px; white-space: normal;"><span style="border: 0px none rgb(25, 25, 25); font-weight: 700; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">了解孩子的想法</span></p><p><span style="color: rgb(25, 25, 25); font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; line-height: 30.4px; word-wrap: break-word;"> </span></p><p style="border: 0px none rgb(25, 25, 25); color: rgb(25, 25, 25); counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; font-size: 16px; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; margin-bottom: 28.8px; margin-top: 10.08px; padding: 0px; white-space: normal;">当孩子遇到问题时，他会从信任的成人中，确定自己的想法与做法。所以，我们可在了解情况后，做出真诚的回答或支持。最好在独处的状态下与孩子沟通，让孩子感到隐私被尊重。随时与孩子共情，让孩子感觉到你是理解他的。</p><p><br/></p>
王敏娥 2018-08-21 14:17
<p style="border: 0px none rgb(25, 25, 25); color: rgb(25, 25, 25); counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; font-size: 16px; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; margin-bottom: 28.8px; margin-top: 10.08px; padding: 0px; white-space: normal;"><span style="border: 0px none rgb(25, 25, 25); font-weight: 700; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">对孩子表达你的爱</span></p><p><span style="color: rgb(25, 25, 25); font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; line-height: 30.4px; word-wrap: break-word;"> </span></p><p style="border: 0px none rgb(25, 25, 25); color: rgb(25, 25, 25); counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; font-size: 16px; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; margin-bottom: 28.8px; margin-top: 10.08px; padding: 0px; white-space: normal;">一个简单的拥抱、亲吻，几句喜爱的言语，充满关爱的一瞥，都包含着巨大的力量。多抱抱，多亲亲孩子，肢体接触能让孩子充分感受到你对他的爱。</p><p><br/></p>
王敏娥 2018-08-21 14:16
<p style="border: 0px none rgb(25, 25, 25); color: rgb(25, 25, 25); counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; font-size: 16px; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; margin-bottom: 28.8px; margin-top: 10.08px; padding: 0px; white-space: normal;"><span style="border: 0px none rgb(25, 25, 25); font-weight: 700; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">多跟孩子单独相处</span></p><p><span style="color: rgb(25, 25, 25); font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; line-height: 30.4px; word-wrap: break-word;"> </span></p><p style="border: 0px none rgb(25, 25, 25); color: rgb(25, 25, 25); counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; font-size: 16px; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; margin-bottom: 28.8px; margin-top: 10.08px; padding: 0px; white-space: normal;">有一个母亲说她很珍惜接送女儿的时间。因为这个时间没有其他孩子的介入，也没有家人的。其实，不论是父亲还是母亲都应该珍惜与孩子单独相处的时间，毕竟生活节奏越来越快，与孩子相处的时间会减少，只有多和孩子在一起才可以增进亲子感情。</p><p><span style="color: rgb(25, 25, 25); font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; line-height: 30.4px; word-wrap: break-word;"> </span></p><p style="border: 0px none rgb(25, 25, 25); color: rgb(25, 25, 25); counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; font-size: 16px; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; margin-bottom: 28.8px; margin-top: 10.08px; padding: 0px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p><br/></p>